the true God gives so we can become joyful givers and not just self-absorbed receivers.
the central question was how to remember rightly. And given my Christian sensibilities, my question from the start was, How should I remember abuse as a person committed to loving the wrongdoer and overcoming evil with good?
In the minds of most people, Christianity is supposed to be about love of God and neighbor (even though it is true that at the heart of Christianity does not lie human love at all, but God’s love for humanity24
Whatever the reasons, when forgiveness happens it is always a miracle of grace. The obstacles in its way are immense