The signs of sociopathy are usually there before we are abused; most of us just don’t know enough to recognize them

If you walked away from a

toxic, negative, abusive,

one-sided, dead-end

low vibrational

relationship or friendship

– you won.

Being a victim is supposed to set you free; it acquits you of any agency, any sense of responsibility to the person who did you harm. It’s not your fault, they say. Leave him, they say. Nobody ever tells you what to do if leaving isn’t an option.

They just call you stupid. A dumb bitch.

Sympathy is only meted out if you follow all of
society’s rules for how a victim is supposed to behave.