If I bother to listen, I can navigate by failure just as much as I can navigate by success.
Letting go isn’t about forgetting; it’s about learning and moving on. It’s making a choice to be strengthened by your past… not strangled by it.
The reason people will attack you never really has anything to do with you. It stems from their OWN evil thoughts that they entertain and from wanting and not getting their way.
Identities aren’t meant to be permanent. They’re like cars: they take us from one place to another.
We work, travel, and seek adventure in them until they break down beyond repair.
At that point, living well means finding a new model that better suits us for a new moment.
Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-esteem or immorality. It covers it up, with a creative version of pride and ego. Only restitution, forgiving yourself and others, compassion, repentance and living with dignity will ever erase the past.
You think that you’ve moved on.
That you’re happier
and now that you think about it –
you’re quite glad
that it didn’t work out
because you are free
You’re so happy.
And it’s better this way.
let me tell you my reasons,”
you say. “Let me explain
what I mean.”
After hours of telling
your neighbour and
and the girl on the bus,
“So, you see? I’m happier now.
There isn’t a good side and a bad side of you or of anybody, so there’s no need to be at war with yourself or anyone or anything at all.
All we are is a bunch of dozy people in the process of waking up.
All we really need to do is try gently to be open to continuing that process.
It’s no good getting worked up about stuff – it’s better to relax and laugh at our mistakes, then figure out how to learn from them and move on.
Try it out yourself. Test your idea with an experimental project. See what works and what doesn’t. Then move forward or move on.
While you were busy trying to prove God stands behind you, God was before me lighting the trail, so he could lead us both.