The only way to know is to learn, relearn and unlearn.
She would never be caught unprepared again, she swore to herself. She would never trust. Never love. Never put faith in other human beings again. She would learn all she could of the shape and substance of the world, and she would find a way to survive in it.
I appeal from your customs. I must be myself. I cannot break myself any longer for you, or you. If you can love me for what I am, we shall be happier. If you cannot, I will still seek to deserve that you should. I must be myself. I will not hide my tastes or aversions. I will so trust that what is deep is holy, that I will do strongly before the sun and moon whatever inly rejoices me and the heart appoints. If you are noble, I will love you; if you are not, I will not hurt you and myself by hypocritical attentions
You cannot build character and courage by taking away people’s initiative and independence
I enjoy working for my heat. I don’t just press a button or twist a thermostat dial. I use the big crosscut saw and the axe, and while I’m getting my heat supply I’m working up an appetite that makes simple food just as appealing as anything a French chef could create.
Trust your instincts, and make judgements on what your heart tells you. The heart will not betray you.
You may be operating from the belief that you must do everything yourself because no one will ever be there for you.
Or you may think that if you never speak up you’ll avoid being rejected. Both these fears no longer apply to you today as an adult.
If you never reach out for help, you will continue to deprive yourself.
Happiness is not in the absence of challenges but the choice to dwell on infinite hope.
Each day, write a thankful note.
I can take care of myself,